Grammar Mishaps: Neither-Nor vs. Either-Or

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What is the difference between "neither-nor" and "either-or"?

I recently received an email with the following question: "Peter has not gone to school today, _______ has he done his homework.” The question was regarding whether "neither" or "nor" should be placed in the blank. What do you think? If you're not sure, read the explanations for the two pairings and then try.

"Either" and "Or"

"Either" is also a singular adjective. It means one or the other, but not both. "Either" expresses one noun/pronoun doing one thing and the other noun/pronoun doing another; in this way it is a "positive" word because what is occurring is true. "Either" can be paired with "or", but not "nor".

  • She wanted to paint either a landscape or a self-portrait. (She wanted to paint one or the other, but not both.)

  • I can't remember if either Georgia or Julia wanted a doll for Christmas. (One of the girls wanted a doll, but not both.)

"Neither" and "Nor"

"Neither" is a singular adjective and can be paired with "nor" in a sentence. "Neither" is never paired with "or". When using "neither" in a sentence, you are saying not the first object and not the second object are behaving in a certain way. The nouns/pronouns are in agreement with one another. "Nor" can also be used independently when negating the second part of two negative clauses.

  • Neither Corie nor Bob went to the play. (Corie isn't going to the play. Bob isn't going to the play.)
  • She said, "I don't like broccoli." I said, "Neither do I." [Neither is used here because she doesn't like broccoli, and I don't like broccoli. (You may hear people say,"Me neither," this is colloquial and not grammatically correct. You wouldn't say, "Me don't like broccoli.")]
  • She didn't want to sing, nor did she want to dance.

The Singular and Plural of It...

Remember: If your element (the words that follow neither or either) is singular, then your verb needs to be singular; if one or both of your elements is plural, then your verb need to be plural.

  • Neither Jaymee nor Dave is having a party. (Jaymee and Dave are singular, so you use the singular "is", not "were".
  • Either the dancer or the acrobats are doing the tricks. (One of the subjects is plural, so "are" instead of "is" is used.

The question remains....

What is the answer to the above question: “Peter has not gone to school today, _______ has he done his homework”?

First, we know that it is not "either" or "or" because Peter is not doing both actions. Another way to look at this sentence is to think of it worded like this: Peter has neither gone to school today, nor has he done his homework. So, the correct answer would be "nor". We also know that "nor" can be used independently when negating the second part of two independent clauses.

Thoughts, Comments or Questions?

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jamestedmondson 5 years ago

I was totally correct, right off the bat. So what if my dad is an english teacher? I mean, he mostly taught the dumb kids, but man can he diagram a sentence!

Dhruvin 5 years ago

Hi Robin,

Thanks so much.. Things are pretty clear to me now

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gredmondson 5 years ago

Hi Robin,

Thanks for tackling "neither -- nor" I do like that construction as it is so clear. The reader knows that if there is a neither, then a nor is following -- and, as you wrote, not the first object and not the second object.

I would like to rewrite your qestion sentence as you did: Peter has neither gone to school today, nor has he done his homework. What I now realize is so interesting is that the subject/verb order is reversed after the "neither." I wonder why. I don't think it has to do with tense.

By the way, one of your examples is a run-on sentence: I can't remember, either Georgia or Julia wanted a doll for Christmas. What do you think of this construction? I can't remember if either Georgia or Julia wanted a doll for Christmas. Or, just omit the "I can't remember," as it is implied by what follows. Or Either Georgia or Julia wanted a doll for Christmas; I don't remember. I have forgotten if either Georgia or Julia wants a doll for Christmas.

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Robin Hub Author 5 years ago

Thanks for the comment, George. I actually changed that sentence and it didn't update when I clicked save. This happens to me all of the time. I don't know if it's a Mac thing, or if I'm losing connectivity. It's a bit frustrating when I think I fixed something, and it doesn't appear fixed on my hub; especially when I don't notice the mistake until later. I'll have to email Paul about the bug. Robin

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Robin Hub Author 5 years ago

I'm glad it helped, Dhruvin!

wajay_47 5 years ago

I had some doubts about this one. Thanks for straightening me out. Great hub, as usual!

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Robin Hub Author 5 years ago

Thanks, wajay_47! I'm glad it helped. ;)

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StuartJ 5 years ago

>>I don't know if it's a Mac thing, or if I'm losing connectivity.

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StuartJ 5 years ago

Sorry, there seems to be a bug in the comments! I was trying to say that I have the same problem with a PC running IE. It's not a Mac thing -- it's a bug. I think the odd glitch we have in Hubpages will disappear as time goes on.

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Robin Hub Author 5 years ago

I think so too. Paul says they are working really hard to fix all of the bugs. I know that part of my problem is a connectivity thing. We have DSL and we just quit and are getting cable. It's funny how impatient I can be with my Internet connection. I can't imagine using dial-up! Thanks for letting me know you were having a problem too. I'll tell Paul. If you have the time, you can email him whenever you see a bug in the system. He really likes to know. ;)

Holly 5 years ago

How about this construction?

Neither of the girls was present.

Neither of the girls were present.

Both sound right to me.

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Robin Hub Author 5 years ago

Your second example is correct, "Neither of the girls were present." You are speaking of more than one girl, so you need the plural "to be" form: were. Thanks for the comment, Holly!

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isibingo 5 years ago

thanks for revisions

Gabi 4 years ago

Hello,

Could you tell me which one of the following sounds more correct, please.

This matter does not have any impact either on ... or on ...

This matter does have neither impact on ... nor on ...

Thank you. Gabi

Gabi 4 years ago

...or the following might be even better:

This matter does neither have an impact on ...nor on...

...what do you think?

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Robin Hub Author 4 years ago

Hi Gabi,

I would phrase the sentence:  This matter does not have any impact on ... or ....

I don't think that there is any need for the words "neither" or "either".  Hope that helps!

heru 4 years ago

thank you for article

Wes 4 years ago

I've always been confused about using the word "either" to describe objects surrounding another object. As an example, I'll hear something to the effect of, "My speakers are on either side of my monitor." This has always sounded silly to me, and seems incorrect according to your definition above (one or the other, but not both).

What's the correct way to say this?

And thanks for all the other great tips! I really enjoyed them!

Monica 4 years ago

What should one do if there is a list of three items to which a certain situation does not apply? Can one get around it by separating the third item in the list by commas?

Say, for instance, "Neither the government, nor the civil cervice, nor even the prime minister, advocates this policy." ?

Thanks for a very useful hub!

Monica

Gary Bazurto  4 years ago

I just want to know why you wrote: Neither Corie nor Bob went to the play. (Corie isn't going to the play. Bob isn't going to the play.) When the sentences in brackets are in future tense. I am an English teacher from Ecuador. Thanks a lot

zeynep  3 years ago

I used to confused about on this issue. The only thing I am still confused is verb structure. As you say, one of the plural elements would be enough for being plural verbs. What I've knew is to being a plural verbs depends on the subject/object which close to verb or preceding the verb. Do you mind helping me on this matter? It would be great if you make it clear. Thank you.

Adrian 3 years ago

OK.... thats what I thought... but I do have a follow up: where you use the example, "She said, 'I don't like broccoli' I said, 'Neither do I.'", could one also say "Nor do I" in response?

Penguin 3 years ago

I have heard that you can use "Either" or "Neither" in a sentence without being paired. I mean, without using "or" or "nor", but I didn't get to find any explanation about it on the web. You get always to find them paired. Would you post some info and examples by using "Either" or "Neither" alone?Thanks and congratulations for the entry.

eva 3 years ago

I need your help in this sentenece ¨phill didn´t play the game phill didn´t wacth the game ¨What's the correct way to say this?

Drake 3 years ago

Your second example is correct, "Neither of the girls were present." You are speaking of more than one girl, so you need the plural "to be" form: were. Thanks for the comment, Holly!

I don't believe your above response is correct. The correct response would be, "Neither of the girls was present." Since girls is the object of the preposition, plurality isn't important. For instance, you wouldn't say, "One of the girls were present."

Pete 3 years ago

I agree with Drake. I was actually going to post a similar question; last night at dinner, I asked the two hostesses 'Does either of you like first person shooters?" and was met with ridicule and they promptly "corrected" me to say "Do either of you like first person shooters?"

I find this erroneous. Isn't there an implied 'one' when you use the word 'either' as in "Does either [one] of you like first person shooters?"

Thanks for clarifying!

Thiago 3 years ago

Thanks for shedding some light on this difficult topic.

My question is:

Neither the boys nor the girl is/are here?

allyanna 3 years ago

please help me ms.robin. i really find it difficult to cope up in my english subject!!

i nid your response!!thank you

Linh 3 years ago

I don't speak English, and English actually is my 2nd language. Thank you so much for clearing this up, much much love. :)

Alicia 3 years ago

Can you also say Neither I. Or is it neither me? Or neither both?

Thanks.

abgaaloow 3 years ago

thanks for this .it really helped i am 15 years old from somlia.

tvgc2007@gmail.com 3 years ago

Is this correct?

question: There was no food in the refrigerator. There was also no foofd in the pot.

ans: There was neither food in the refrigerator nor inthe pot.

Arwa Mo'men 3 years ago

I don't think that your answer was correct,(tvgc2007)

I think it is better to say : There was no food neither in the refrigeraton nor in the pot.

because you can't say (there is neither food) instead of (there is no food)

I hope I helped...

Bye

Malcolm 3 years ago

tvgc2007 & Arwa Mo'men: I think you would say either:

"There was no food in either the refrigerator or the pot."

or:

"There was no food in the refrigerator or the pot."

For emphasis, you might say, "There was no food, neither in the refrigerator nor in the pot."

But I am not so keen on this third version.

Safar PA 3 years ago

Please check below mentioned sentence is coerrect. " You didn't give me the confirmation neither by email nor by phone"

Gary 3 years ago

I think it should be,

"There was food in neither the refrigerator, nor the pot." since the present tense version would be,

"There is food in either the refrigerator, or the pot." and that makes complete sense without sounding awkward--to me.

"Malcolm says:2 weeks ago

tvgc2007 & Arwa Mo'men: I think you would say either:

"There was no food in either the refrigerator or the pot."

or:

"There was no food in the refrigerator or the pot."

For emphasis, you might say, "There was no food, neither in the refrigerator nor in the pot."

But I am not so keen on this third version."

huda2 3 years ago

hi,

please, i need to understand why "either" is choosing here. what is the rules that was used here?

22. "It is not very cold. I don't think we need these big jackets." "I don't think so, ___3__."anywayneithereithertoothanks

carmen 3 years ago

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aranka 2 years ago

that is a great explanation! thank you!

swordel 2 years ago

What about this one:

"Either you or I"

- are

- am

??

Stephen 2 years ago

Sorry Robin, but you were wrong in one of your posts above.

"Neither of the girls was here" is correct because the word neither is referring to one of two girls. "Neither" in this example clearly means "one of two."

If there were more than two girls and zero of them showed up, then "None of the girls were here" would be correct.

kingthorin 2 years ago

If someone said "I don't like broccoli" and someone else commented "Me neither" wouldn't the second person be using a double negative and therefore actually be saying they do like broccoli?

Sean 2 years ago

I believe they would be implying that the first person did not like the second person.

pars 2 years ago

"either" and "neither" will always take a singular verb irrespective of the plural word followingit.

e.g:Neither of the girls was present.

"Neither" is the subject here and "girls" does not modify the number of the verb.

eg: Either is fine with me.

Neither of the two fans is working.

Either of us has to discharge the duty.

Don 2 years ago

With regards with the use neither and or, I have made the observation that while discussing two objects under the same verb, use of neither and or together is quite common:

I like neither blueberry or cranberry.

while they would use nor with sentences containing two predicates such as:

John neither washed his shirt nor pressed his pants.

Just wondering if the first sentence has any grammatical grounds or is it just plain wrong. In learning English, I find that there seems to be as many exceptions as there are rules.

ros balane 2 years ago

thanks robin, keep it up ! you're doing a truly wonderful job !

DLing 2 years ago

I refer to your sentence, "Either the dancer or the acrobats are doing the tricks. (One of the subjects is plural, so "are" instead of "is" is used." How about a case where the sentence is, " Either the acrobats or the dancer __ doing the tricks", wouldn't the answer in this instance be "IS"? Kindly confirm. Thank you.

MW 2 years ago

My question was similar to those posed by swordel and DLing.

I found this answer while looking around, but I don't know how accurate it is.

"When subjects are compounded with or or nor, the verb agrees with the subject closest to it.

Blueberries taste good after a spicy meal.

Either blueberries or pineapple tastes good after a spicy meal.

Either pineapple or blueberries taste good after a spicy meal.

Read the last two sentences aloud and listen to the way each verb agrees with the subject closest to it."

-http://webster.commnet.edu/sensen/part2/twelve/com

Raquel 2 years ago

And how do I use neither...nor when I'm one of the subjects?

Neither john nor I am going to the party?

Sam 2 years ago

Thank you! You helped me a lot! This kind of explanations are useful!!!

Oyin 2 years ago

Is it appropriate to use either/or when we have more than two alternatives?

For example, is it correct to write:

A cake may be purchased either by Mike, Moley, or Joan.

Thanks for your help

speedbird111 2 years ago

what is the rule using "comma" in the sentence?

Thank you for your comments.

Shay 2 years ago

Hi there,

I have a query. I'm drafting a letter and I dont know whehter to say:

- neither us nor our client (? has/have) received the funds

- neither we nor our client (? has/have) received the funds

- neither our client nor us (? has/have) received the funds

Please help!!

danial 2 years ago

hi would you mind telling me which one is corect?

sofi was'nt at work yesterday,nor did hi come o work today

sofi was'nt at work yesterday,neigher did he come work today

and why? thanks

Joan 2 years ago

Is correct this sentence?:

We select the programmes, eithr on the basis of joint activities either on that of transnational funding.

Paula 2 years ago

Gracias por la explicación. Es más fácil aprender su uso... thanks.

dmaya 24 months ago

first sentence is right.. it is assumed that 'neither' is used in the first half.

Mathew Waktins 23 months ago

Every other source I have checked says that neither...nor is acceptable. I have attached a URL by a professor in the sciences. Below is another source from the head of an English department:

http://www.cenidet.edu.mx/subaca/web-dda/docs/teac

marty 23 months ago

i think you can use either, but personally i use neither.

Deisy 22 months ago

how to make differences between either, neither, nor and or in the sentences and how to explain to the children in elementary school.

ridha 22 months ago

Hi,

Can you tell me the differences between these two sentences:

I neither speak French nor Italian.

I speak neither French nor English.

Bryan 22 months ago

Qoute:

Mathew Waktins 2 months ago

Every other source I have checked says that neither...nor is acceptable. I have attached a URL by a professor in the sciences. Below is another source from the head of an English department:

http://www.cenidet.edu.mx/subaca/web-dda/docs/teac

This document is hillarious: A "Professor" of English who can't even spell the past tense of "teach"!

Thank you for making my evening.

Bryan 22 months ago

Er... let myself down slightly there by mis-typing "quote"!

Mohammad  21 months ago

hello every one here in the site can any one help me regarding the english grammar as it is my second language

Muhammad ichsan 21 months ago

What a good explanation . . .!!

Fred Haendl 21 months ago

I also don't like broccoli.

Stefan 21 months ago

I don't like broccoli either.

JT 20 months ago

Someone at work just told me that using "Neither" with "or" is also correct. Any comment?

Sofia 20 months ago

Is it correct to use either..and? For exemple, Either A and B have...?

aris 19 months ago

Thanks

Erica 19 months ago

Thank you Robin, I'm an English teacher for Korean students and even I have confusion of using Either or and neither nor. But after I read your article, I totally understood the usage of Either or and neither nor... Thank you..^^

Tookie 18 months ago

I love these comments

They are all useful for people who are using English correctly.

mustafe  18 months ago

i understood that neith nor can be used as singular or plural both ways

Natalia 18 months ago

Please help me to say how it should be:

I don't think that it could be interesting neither for you nor for me

or

I don't think that it could be interesting either for you or for me???

Thank you in advance for your help!

rhalmi 17 months ago

clear explanations. Thank you for the article!!

fadz 14 months ago

hi

could you please check my sentence..is it correct or not

"this is might correspond to the...."

paulcelso 14 months ago

What if you are talking about three or more things. Can you say 'neither A nor B nor C?'

Seth 14 months ago

Everyone seems to be missing the point that neither and either present two different situations, so what's correct often depends on what your intent is.

Neither is a situation in which the objects following are excluded:

"Neither Bob nor Mary stole from the cookie jar" says someone other than Bob or Mary is the thief.

Either is a situation in which one object is included at the exclusion of another:

"Either Bob or Mary stole from the cookie jar" says that of the two people, one was the thief while the other was not.

In a situation where multiple uses of nor are possible, saying "none" is less cumbersome because it refers to all possibilities, eliminating the need to list the objects explicitly:

"Neither A nor B nor C" becomes "None of these".

Jackd779 13 months ago

Hi, just a query that I don't think anybody has flagged up yet.

Can you say "me either" (as in 'I agree')? I always thought it was "me neither" but somebody is convinced you say "me either" if you are agreeing with the person, and "me neither" if you disagree. What's the proper form?

Thanks

Cesar M. Chagas 13 months ago

Hi, I am from Brazil. May I write something like "This medicine did not control bacteria nor inhibitted virus"

firodj 12 months ago

Thank for your explanation, it helps me to clear confusion from Google Translate's result.

james 12 months ago

neither the dogs nor cat "were" happy

neither the dogs nor cats "were" happy

neither the dog nor cats "were" happy?

Ibraheem 12 months ago

Thank you so much ..

I looked for that one for long time ..

Now it's clear for me ..

Ibraheem

samah 10 months ago

thanks a lot

it's reaally helps

aparna 6 months ago

if two different verbs are used in either-or, neither-nor then what about the structure? please clarify my doubt.

Anu 6 months ago

question:

Neither Rob nor Cate __________ (remember/ remembers ) any such meeting.

answer: remember ???

please help!

poov 6 months ago

thanx for clearin my doubt

jana 5 months ago

Tell us clearly how should we treat the verb with niether? Should we put it in the singular or the plural.

Tom 5 months ago

Should the verb be singular or plural in this case:

Neither Tom, Dick nor Harry was present at the party.

Kevin 5 months ago

Robin, that last part is absolutely wrong.

"OR" does NOT compound subjects as PLURAL.

ONLY THE WORD "AND" can compound subjects!!!

If you have two subjects in a sentence, it could be plural or singular DEPENDING ON WHICH SUBJECT IS CLOSEST TO THE VERB!!!

Flip your subjects, you'll see what I mean.

"Either the dancer or the acrobats are doing the tricks"

That's correct, but lets flip it and try it YOUR WAY.

"Either the acrobats or the dancer are doing the trick"

ARE? No Robin, that's wrong.

The SINGULAR subject "dancer," because it is closer to the verb, makes the verb singular.

abdikadir2008@hotmail.com 5 months ago

Thank you i don't know iether neither o nor when i write a sentence mostly i write wrong sentence if the either or neither in the sentence. i would like to get more clasifying sentences about either and neither.

vicky 5 months ago

please helpe me ok i confused here i can understan either and neither its confused for me

Either Bob or boB 5 months ago

How would I translate this statement into an equivalent statement that uses neither "or" nor "and" : (a) Two sets are equal or they have nothing in common. (b) A given number is a perfect square and the number is less than 1000?

Mason 4 months ago

Is this correct???

Either you and your friend are beautiful my sister.

Jeff 3 months ago

Mason, the sentence you suggest should begin with "Both," not "Either."

Both you and your friend are beautiful, my sister.

The subject is the pronoun "both," which plural. Contrary to what Robin and some other commentators say, the pronouns "either" and "neither" are singular and should be followed by a singular verb.

Both of the sisters are available.

Neither of the sisters is available.

Either of the sisters is available.

In all three of these correct sentences the subject is the first word, not "sisters."

Emily 3 months ago

I have a question:

Can you use either for more than two objects?

Here's my example:

When I need a break, I’ll head into either the kitten room, cat room, or rabbit room and play with the quieter animals.

Jeff 3 months ago

Emily, basically "either" is used with two objects; with more than two objects, we drop "either" or perhaps use "any" instead.

After the stroke Mary couldn't lift either of her legs or move any of the fingers on her right hand.

But there are cases where we use "either" with three or more objects to emphasize that ONLY ONE of the objects is to be chosen, is pertinent, etc.

To flavor the soup, we use either salt, miso, or soy sauce.

This sentence would work without "either," but having "either" emphasizes that we have use just one of the three condiments.

Either walk, hitchhike, or take the tram.

Having "either" in the above sentence implies that these are your only alternatives. Taking a taxi wouldn't work.

As for the example you gave, if you want to emphasize that those three rooms are the only ones you would go to--not the gorilla room or the aardvark room--then "either" is useful. Otherwise, you probably don't need it.

Btw, in this case I would say "head TO the kitten room," not "head INTO the kitten room." I would use "head into" to describe going into the middle of something: "head into a crowd" or "head into traffic" or "head into a storm."

screenscriber 3 months ago

Here's my sentence - should I use "or" or "nor"?

"Neither Kathy or Shirley have talked about these issues in a long time."

I ask because somehow using "nor" here feels over the top, almost intrusive on a sentence that otherwise sounds right and flows well. Perhaps what I'm really asking is whether it is acceptable in modern English to go with "or" in certain situations, rather than "nor" (even if "nor" is grammatically correct).

Edge Badz 3 months ago

hi, it is very useful...i am so thankful that i was able to search this...i am now ready for my teaching demonstration which is about neither and either.

thanks a lot.

God Bless and have a great day.

from: edgebadz-Philippines

Jeff 3 months ago

Screenscriber, as a general rule, "either" goes with "or" and "neither" goes with "nor." "Nor" is the correct choice here. Even if it sounds antiquated or out-of-place to you here, "nor" is a perfectly nor-mal word in modern English, spoken as well as written.

Of course it doesn't matter much when you're speaking, unless you have really picky friends, but if you're submitting your PhD thesis, it's better to follow the grammatical rules. In the case of a sentence you really feel uncomfortable with, you might try rewording:

Kathy and Shirley have not talked about…

Both Kathy and Shirley have avoided talking about…

Kathy and Shirley never talk about… anymore.

Jeff 3 months ago

One of the sample sentences given near the beginning is:

Either the dancer or the acrobats are doing the tricks.

Robin explains that if one of the subjects is plural, the verb ought to be plural too, and I pretty much agree with her. Commentators have questioned whether the sentence would be okay if it read, "Either the acrobats or the dancer are doing the tricks," some insisting that since "dancer" is immediately before the verb, the verb should also be singular: Either the acrobats or the dancer is doing the tricks.

In cases like this, there's a third and better alternative: rewrite the sentence so that this problem doesn't occur. Here are a few ways:

The tricks are being performed by either the dancer or the acrobats.

The tricks are being performed either by the dancer or by the acrobats.

Either the dancer is doing the tricks or the acrobats are.

screenscriber 2 months ago

Belated thanks Jeff - very helpful!

Miguel Domingo 2 months ago

Thanks a lot. I am an english learner I have problem with these...

lola 2 months ago

which is correct to say?

a) none of my parents is greek

b)neither of my parents is greek

cleopatra labonita 4 weeks ago

thx it's so lovely to help us am one of english learners but plz i want more details am in need

Sophy 4 weeks ago

If someone says, "I cannot wait to see you". Is it correct to respond, me either?

lona 9 days ago

is this sentens true:nither does he like to go,nor does he like to play

THX1136 5 days ago

I have a question. Which is correct for the following sentence - "or" or "nor"?

Do not be lead by fear _comfort.

You is understood obviously. You are being advised to not be lead by either thing. It seems to me both could be used. I'm not sure which would be the "correct" one to use. Thanks for any help offered.

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